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मंगलवार, 14 सितंबर 2010

How to keep a woman happy...











How to keep a woman happy.... Priceless!


It's not difficult to make a woman happy. A man only needs to be:

1. A friend
2. A companion
3. A lover
4. A brother
5. A father
6. A master
7. A chef
8. An electrician
9. A carpenter
10. A plumber 
11. A mechanic
12. A decorator
13. A stylist
14. A sexologist 
15. A gynaecologist
16. A psychologist
17. A pest exterminator
18. A psychiatrist
19. A healer
20. A good listener
21. An organizer 
22. A good father
23. Very clean
24. Sympathetic
25. Athletic 
26. Warm
27. Attentive
28. Gallant
29. Intelligent
30. Funny
31. Creative
32. Tender
33. Strong
34. Understanding
35. Tolerant 
36. Prudent
37. Ambitious
38. Capable
39. Courageous 
40. Determined
41. True
42. Dependable
43. Passionate
44. Compassionate


45. Give her compliments regularly
46. Love shopping
47. Be honest
48. Be very rich
49. Not stress her out
50. Not look at other girls


51. Give her lots of attention, but expect little yourself
52. Give her lots of time, especially time for herself
53. Give her lots of space, never worrying about where she goes 


54. Never to forget:
* birthdays
* anniversaries
* arrangements she makes 



1. Leave him alone 








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    INFORMATION  EVERYONE SHOULD  KNOW.........................

    Blood Clots / Stroke
     - They Now Have a Fourth Indicator,  the Tongue

    I  will continue to forward this every time it  comes around!

    Remember  the 1st Three Letters.... S. T. R.  


    During a BBQ, a friend  stumbled and took a little fall - she assured  everyone that she was fine (they offered to call  paramedics). She said she had just tripped over a brick because of her new shoes.

    They got her cleaned up and got her a new plate of  food. While she appeared a bit shaken up, Ingrid  went about enjoying herself the rest of the evening

    Ingrid's husband called later  telling everyone that his wife had been taken to  the hospital - (at 6:00  pm  Ingrid passed away.) She had suffered a stroke at the BBQ. Had they known how to identify the signs of a stroke, perhaps Ingrid would be with  us today. Some don't die. They end up in a helpless, hopeless condition instead.

    It  only takes a minute to read this...

    A  neurologist says that if he can get to a stroke  victim within 3 hours he can totally reverse the  effects of a stroke...totally. He said  the trick was getting a stroke recognized,  diagnosed, and then getting the patient  medically cared for within 3 hours, which is  tough.


    Thank  God for the sense to remember the '3' steps, STR.

    Read and Learn!

    Sometimes symptoms of a  stroke are difficult to identify. Unfortunately,  the lack of awareness spells disaster. The  stroke victim may suffer severe brain damage  when people nearby fail to recognize the  symptoms of a stroke.

    Now doctors say a bystander can recognize a stroke by asking three  simple questions:

     *Ask  the individual to SMILE. 

     *Ask  the person to TALK and SPEAK A SIMPLE SENTENCE  (Coherently - i.e. It is sunny out  today.) 

     *Ask  him or her to RAISE BOTH  ARMS. 

    If  he or she has trouble with ANY ONE of these  tasks, call emergency number immediately  and describe the symptoms to the  dispatcher.

    New  Sign of a Stroke -------- Stick out Your Tongue

    NOTE:  Another 'sign' of a stroke is this: Ask the  person to 'stick' out his tongue.. If the tongue  is 'crooked', if it goes to one side or the  other
    ,  that is  also an indication of a  stroke. 

    A  cardiologist says if everyone who gets this  e-mail sends it to 10 people; you can bet that  at least one life will be saved.  

    I  have done my part. Will  you?



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    सोमवार, 13 सितंबर 2010

    राधामोहन स्मृति काव्य संध्या : 22वाँ वार्षिक कार्यक्रम - भाग 3

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    कवि-परिचय अलग से पोस्ट बना कर दूँगा। ऑडियो भी भेजना है, मगर अभी इस मोबाइल कैम के वीडियो को ही सहेज लें…

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    राधामोहन स्मृति काव्य संध्या : 22वाँ वार्षिक कार्यक्रम - भाग २

    अगली कड़ी प्रस्तुत है…

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    राधामोहन स्मृति काव्य संध्या : 22वाँ वार्षिक कार्यक्रम - भाग १

    पूज्य पिताजी की पुण्यतिथि पर वार्षिक कवि-गोष्ठी - 23वें साल में।
    सितम्बर 9, 1988 को वे दिवंगत हुए - वायुयान दुर्घटना में। तब से हर वर्ष उन्हें ऐसे ही याद करते हैं हम सब। इस बार माताजी की अस्वस्थता से आयोजन बहुत ही लघु-सीमित रहा।
    बहुत शब्दों से क्या प्रयोजन? आप भी सहभागी हों…विलम्ब के लिए क्षमा।

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    सोमवार, 6 सितंबर 2010

    डॉ0 देवी शेट्टी, प्रसिद्ध हृदयरोग विशेषज्ञ से एक बातचीत

    यह महत्वपूर्ण संदेश ईमेल पर प्राप्त हुआ था। सभी की सामान्य जानकारी और सावधानी व सुरक्षा हेतु मैंने उचित समझा कि इसे सार्वजनिक तौर पर पोस्ट कर दिया जाय:

    One of the best & most renowned Heart surgeons we have in India today.


    A chat with
    Dr.Devi Shetty (Heart Specialist),
    Narayana Hrudayalaya, Bangalore
    was arranged by WIPRO for its employees .
    The transcript of the chat is given below. Useful for everyone.

    Qn: What are the thumb rules for a layman to take care of his heart?

    1. Diet - Less of carbohydrate, more of protein, less oil
    2. Exercise - Half an hour's walk, at least five days a week; avoid lifts and avoid sitting for a longtime
    3. Quit smoking
    4. Control weight
    5. Control blood pressure and sugar

    Qn: Is eating non-veg food (fish) good for the heart?

    Ans: No

    Qn: It's still a grave shock to hear that some apparently healthy person
    gets a cardiac arrest. How do we understand it in perspective?

    Ans: This is called silent attack; that is why we recommend everyone past the age of 30 to undergo routine health checkups.

    Qn: Are heart diseases hereditary?

    Ans: Yes

    Qn: What are the ways in which the heart is stressed? What practices do you suggest to de-stress?

    Ans: Change your attitude towards life. Do not look for perfection in everything in life.

    Qn: Is walking better than jogging or is more intensive exercise required to keep a healthy heart?

    Ans: Walking is better than jogging since jogging leads to early fatigue and injury to joints

    Qn: You have done so much for the poor and needy. What has inspired you to do so?

    Ans: Mother Theresa , who was my patient

    Qn: Can people with low blood pressure suffer heart diseases?

    Ans: Extremely rare

    Qn: Does cholesterol accumulates right from an early age
    (I'm currently only 22) or do you have to worry about it only after you are above 30 years of age?

    Ans: Cholesterol accumulates from childhood.

    Qn: How do irregular eating habits affect the heart ?

    Ans: You tend to eat junk food when the habits are irregular and your body's enzyme release for digestion gets confused.

    Qn: How can I control cholesterol content without using medicines?

    Ans: Control diet, walk and eat walnut.

    Qn: Can yoga prevent heart ailments?

    Ans: Yoga helps.

    Qn: Which is the best and worst food for the heart?

    Ans: Fruits and vegetables are the best and the worst is oil.

    Qn: Which oil is better - groundnut, sunflower, olive?

    Ans: All oils are bad .

    Qn: What is the routine checkup one should go through? Is there any specific test?

    Ans: Routine blood test to ensure sugar, cholesterol is ok. Check BP, Treadmill test after an echo.

    Qn: What are the first aid steps to be taken on a heart attack?

    Ans: Help the person into a sleeping position , place an aspirin tablet under the tongue with a sorbitrate tablet if available, and rush him to a coronary care unit since the maximum casualty takes place within the first hour.

    Qn: How do you differentiate between pain caused by a heart attack and that caused due to gastric trouble?

    Ans: Extremely difficult without ECG.

    Qn: What is the main cause of a steep increase in heart problems amongst youngsters? I see people of about 30-40 yrs of age having heart attacks and serious heart problems.

    Ans: Increased awareness has increased incidents.. Also, sedentary lifestyles, smoking, junk food, lack of exercise in a country where people are genetically three times more vulnerable for heart attacks than Europeans and Americans.

    Qn: Is it possible for a person to have BP outside the normal range of 120/80 and yet be perfectly healthy?

    Ans: Yes.

    Qn: Marriages within close relatives can lead to heart problems for the child. Is it true?

    Ans : Yes, co-sanguinity leads to congenital abnormalities and you may not have a software engineer as a child

    Qn: Many of us have an irregular daily routine and many a times we have to stay late nights in office. Does this affect our heart ? What precautions would you recommend?

    Ans : When you are young, nature protects you against all these irregularities. However, as you grow older, respect the biological clock.

    Qn: Will taking anti-hypertensive drugs cause some other complications (short / long term)?

    Ans : Yes, most drugs have some side effects. However, modern anti- hypertensive drugs are extremely safe.

    Qn: Will consuming more coffee/tea lead to heart attacks?

    Ans : No.

    Qn: Are asthma patients more prone to heart disease?

    Ans : No.

    Qn: How would you define junk food?

    Ans : Fried food like Kentucky , McDonalds , samosas, and even masala dosas..

    Qn: You mentioned that Indians are three times more vulnerable. What is the reason for this, as Europeans and Americans also eat a lot of junk food?

    Ans: Every race is vulnerable to some disease and unfortunately, Indians are vulnerable for the most expensive disease.

    Qn: Does consuming bananas help reduce hypertension?

    Ans : No.

    Qn: Can a person help himself during a heart attack (Because we see a lot of forwarded emails on this)?

    Ans : Yes. Lie down comfortably and put an aspirin tablet of any description under the tongue and ask someone to take you to the nearest coronary care unit without any delay and do not wait for the ambulance since most of the time, the ambulance does not turn up.

    Qn: Do, in any way, low white blood cells and low hemoglobin count lead to heart problems?

    Ans : No. But it is ideal to have normal hemoglobin level to increase your exercise capacity.

    Qn: Sometimes, due to the hectic schedule we are not able to exercise. So, does walking while doing daily chores at home or climbing the stairs in the house, work as a substitute for exercise?

    Ans : Certainly. Avoid sitting continuously for more than half an hour and even the act of getting out of the chair and going to another chair and sitting helps a lot.

    Qn: Is there a relation between heart problems and blood sugar?

    Ans: Yes. A strong relationship since diabetics are more vulnerable to heart attacks than non-diabetics.

    Qn: What are the things one needs to take care of after a heart operation?

    Ans : Diet, exercise, drugs on time , Control cholesterol, BP, weight.

    Qn: Are people working on night shifts more vulnerable to heart disease when compared to day shift workers?

    Ans : No.

    Qn: What are the modern anti- hypertensive drugs?

    Ans : There are hundreds of drugs and your doctor will chose the right combination for your problem, but my suggestion is to avoid the drugs and go for natural ways of controlling blood pressure by walk, diet to
    reduce weight and changing attitudes towards lifestyles.

    Qn: Does dispirin or similar headache pills increase the risk of heart attacks?

    Ans : No.

    Qn: Why is the rate of heart attacks more in men than in women?

    Ans : Nature protects women till the age of 45.

    Qn: How can one keep the heart in a good condition?

    Ans : Eat a healthy diet, avoid junk food, exercise everyday, do not smoke and, go for health checkup s if you are past the age of 30 ( once in six months recommended) ..

    Send it to all your friends whom u care about …..

    (Received from Shri P. Lal, via and courtesy Ms. Kusum)

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    शनिवार, 4 सितंबर 2010

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